Set Your Goals; Follow Your Dreams; Listen To Your Heart; And Don't Let Anything Stand In Your Way!!
Hold your head high and be brave to dream big. There's no limit for a person to dream; so stay free and fearless in dreaming big! One of the best thing I've learn from my business partners are, never be afraid to dream big and write it down in a piece of paper. Write it down in detail; this means for an example if your dream is to get a car, you need to write down all the things below:
1) The type of car that you want to buy
2) How much does it cost?
3) How much is your deposit and your monthly payment? How much you need to park aside to reach the deposit on a monthly basis, and by when?
4) What is the color of your favorite car?
5) By when (date, month and year) would you want to get the car?
6) What are the specs of the car?
7) Which location of the dealer are you going to purchase the car from?
8) How is the petrol consumption and what is the amount of road tax and insurance you will have to prepare every year?
Do you feel better and clear now looking at the dream and the goals that you need to achieve by the time it reaches its due date? This is how exactly you need to plan out what you need to do on a daily or monthly basis in order to get what you dream of. Write it down so clearly and keep it somewhere transparent and visible to you. You need to look at it on a daily basis and practice your mind to think of it all the time, it will be easier for you to work towards it.
This is what I do every morning. I prepared a journal to write my daily goals specifically and decorate it the way I love to see it. That way I will be excited to grab it every morning to write down my goals; no matter how busy I am.
Keep each page for 1 day. Start by writing the day and date at the top of the page; Be creative in your own ways, you can use colored pens, highlight your page or draw anything; if you are a person who love stickers decorate each page the way you want; if you are a person who love to doodle around, than by all means you can do it. Well, it is not necessary to have one page daily, you can mix and play around by having 2 pages daily; it is totally UP TO YOU! Now start by writing your goals, just start writing, and keep writing your your bullet points. Start with all the small goals or big goals that you have in your mind that you want to achieve (no matter if it is this year or next year) just write, let the ideas flow down your head to the page and do this every day. You can start highlighting any of the dreams that you've written and analyse the things that you want to focus and prioritize on first followed by the rest.
Do not be afraid to write down your dreams! I used to be very afraid to write down things like buying a car or even buying a house, due to the fact that I never believed in myself and I had the vision in my head that those dreams will stay as dreams and I will never afford to achieve it.
But when I start mixing around with people that give tones of motivation as well as of speaking about positive words and how to achieve dreams, they taught me how to shift my perspective and the way I think from being 'Impossible' to 'I AM POSSIBLE'. These are the people that are out of my normal circle of friends, who have pushed me towards the dream that I have and motivated me to focus on it on a daily basis instead not just one time every year. So I wrote down things that I really want to achieve on a daily basis, all the small and big goals, what I need to do to get to what I really wanted and made sure that I have it in my mind all the time.
You will be listening to a lot of people among your friends and family who will not support what you really want to do in your life; they will end up laughing at you or as usual, talk behind you; gossip about you. I too went through the same situation 10 years ago, there were people who laughed at me when I said I wanted to get a house because I was earning nothing less than 2k a month. Trust me, all you have to do is just go with what you want and never give up on your dreams. I did that and I had a very supportive hero; my late dad; who will ask my progress daily and push me to get a house. My parents were not privileged to own a house from the time they were born, married until the time my brother and I ventured into the employment world. I came from a very average family background that lived under one roof and depends totally on my late dad's salary on a monthly basis which was approximately 2k a month. However we have everything that we need and my late dad never in his life failed to manage the household income or made anyone of us in the family to be in any situation that we were either lack of food or love not even for a day.
Purchasing a house was never in our mind due to the lack of financial stability. I took up the challenge and decided to purchase a house for my parents and to stop them from moving from one house to another house which we have been doing since I was a kid. I wrote down my goals daily, and day by day I was so determined to achieve it and to make the dreams come true; the more people around me said I will not be able to do it, the more eager I was to make it happen and I managed to get a house on my own for my parents at the age of 24. It was the best gift a daughter can give to her dad and made her dad live in the house like a king until his last breath.
Hence, there will be so many people around you will whisper, say, talk, speak, shout out to you conveying their message to you that you dreams are fun to laugh at, your dreams will not come true, you are dreaming! and many more. But only you know how important the dream is for you and how far you will go to do whatever it takes to build the dream of your life! Stop listening to all the people who gives you negative vibes and say you can't do it. Try to take a look at where they belong at the moment... There must be a reason why they are so far behind you, and they love to remain at that place, talking and gossiping about the same thing every other day. Quit walking around people who non-stop complaining how their bosses and management will not help them out. If you want to make a difference, throw some positive words to them every day! One day, it will change their life!
So don't bother what others have to say about you and your dreams, and ignore all the negative and demotivating talks from them as they are trying their best to influence you and stop you from moving forward; they are scared that you might fly higher than them!
Speak to people who motivates you to work harder to achieve your dreams!! Surround yourself with the doers and the dreamers, the one that pushes you to the next level to be the best among the rest. Always remember that your dreams are VALID! So, associate yourself with positive mindset and people who will lift you higher and will make you focus on your goals!
Your dreams will come true, it can be to be your own boss, open a restaurant or anything. Enjoy your daily journey and make sure you do something everyday that will lead you to your dreams!! Here you go, some simple steps to achieve your goals and please do make sure you are not skipping the practice to write down your daily goals!
1) Write down your Ultimate Goals, that does not have any time frame in a blank page.
2) Divide the goals into separate sections; Health, Carrier, Relationship, Business, etc. Set your due date for each goals. Stick this on a wall board and keep it somewhere you can see daily. Paste it on your Laptop Sticky Notes. Place reminders in your mobile. Stick notes in your car.
3) Write down your daily goals in a journal!!! Be creative!
4) Be specific with your dreams! This is your future, make sure you know exactly what you want, write down in detailed description. Write down every single thing you need to prepare or do!
5) Be proactive and track your journey on a daily basis Make sure you do something everyday to train your mind on the importance of your goals. Remember Law of Attraction, you need to feed your mind daily of the tings you want. Do it daily can also means, writing the goals daily or reading up articles on the dreams daily to refresh our research.
6) Accept failures. Be open to things that did not work out and try out new things. If method A is not working, get up and proceed to try method B. You will never know if method C is going to bring you a huge profit and just one step ahead to the goals that you have targeted.
7) Surround yourself with positive vibes. Never compromise on this rule. This will determine where your mind and focus will lead you towards achieving your dreams. Remember, you are the average of 5 people you mix with. The more you surround yourself with positive mindset people, the more ideas you will get to better your daily steps and the faster you will achieve your dreams!
8) Celebrate small success! Every journey is a sweet path, is a small effort that groups up to the ultimate goal that you are focusing. So, celebrate each small success along the way and enjoy the journey. Remember to write it down and capture some moments.
Last but not least, go all out for your dreams! Make it happen! It might take some time, but it will definitely surely happen if you don't stop doing what you doing until you get what you want! InsyaAllah!
Love,
Miss Coffee Fix
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