When you start realizing the meaning of having just a small circle of trusted friends or family members, that is exactly when you know your priorities.
Your priorities has kicked in to the point where you do not actually give out your time recklessly to those who don't need it. And it feels really good.
There are 2 types of people that we encounter everyday. Or I shall say it as we have 2 personalities that we might not realize it. One is with millions of friends in their social network, perhaps great awesome followers or connections but they don't really talk to most of them; and they might not really know what the rest are actually doing in their real life. All that they know the existence of these group of people is when they start commenting or liking the social media posts.
The other type of people are the ones who have limited friends, and they know exact details about the other party. This is what you call it as having a small circle where one keep to themselves, and can share any sort of ideas or cool stuffs with them.
To be honest, I have both of this list in my "connection wardrobe". That's how I will call it.
It is not wrong at all. The big group of connections is great as it has increased exceptional amount of good network for me in terms of exchanging ideas on new knowledge as well as business or services. I learnt a lot throughout these years from this awesome and wonderful people. There are no words of gratitude I can express to them to show my appreciation in equipping me with lots of good stuffs.
If you are already following my LinkedIn and Instagram, you will know that I have quite a big network of connections and I will strongly encourage you to leverage what you have if you want to change the way you think and behave in building your own brand by following good great successful people. (Especially in LinkedIn - No Regrets).
Now the interesting part is that I actually have a very small group of friends (and family) that I will reach out to in terms of sharing my everyday meaningful memories. And that is totally OK with me. I have never needed more than just a few friends in my life that I can hangout regularly and be very close and have that courtesy of being around each other whenever we want to reach out for something; not necessarily for help but also to share good-stuffs.
These are the people that knows exactly what I love to do, what I can work on, be crazy and furious and the list goes on. I can totally be myself without worries all the time whenever I am surrounded by these angels. I am very sure you have some of these kind of people in your list that you will never trade them for anything else in this world.
So when my posts gets repetitive at times (especially on my Instagram) haha; you got to bare with me.
Just a piece of advise at the end of this blog :)
Remember who you are and what is important for you.
Know and keep your priorities straight.
You need to love yourself; and choose your own circle who respects and accept you for who you are.
Limit yourself when you want to do something for those who will not even do a small thing for you.
Both people should feel mutual about one another and if they don't obviously they're not a good one.
Love yourself first than others in your life.
Love,
Miss Coffee Fix
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